There have been countless studies about the human need for touching and connection with others. However; this need is not unique to humans. All species thrive when in the company of companions. Our pets are often as needy as we are in their constant vying for petting and interaction with us. We have all seen pictures and videos of animals that have formed strong bonds with those of a different species – even those that would become their prey in the wild. From a landscaper’s viewpoint, plants look more attractive when planted in groups of three to five; but they also tend to grow stronger and healthier when planted together. I often place my houseplants together in groups because it not only looks better, but they grow lush and it helps to raise the humidity around them.
I often get annoyed with my cat because he requires his daily dose of affection whenever I am trying to write this blog, or when I am doing work that requires mental concentration. Children and dogs, as we all know, can be equally demanding. Churches and organizations of every conceivable activity have come about because of peoples’ innate longing for socialization. Those who spend much of their time alone need occasional stimulation from visiting friends, whether they admit it, or not. Prisoners, who are placed in isolation, suffer the most from their sentence.
We all share this small planet with each other – regardless whether we are human, bird, or tree. Some species are more social than others and some live solitary lives except when they come together to mate and ensure the survival of their species. Still, we all need each other to some degree. When we are born, generally our mother and a few attendants are there to greet us. Some people do die alone, but it is my guess that if they had a choice, they would have a loved one at their side to hold their hand while they passed from this particular plane of existence to the next.
